by Robert Wilkinson
Well, the first thing is not to yield to it, or give it any more reality than it is due, which is none. Fear is a natural response, but also a learned one. There are very few things we natually fear, but there are many things we've learned to fear, like being alone, being with someone, being unloved, not making enough money to live and thrive, being fired, evicted, or cut loose without resources. In all of these cases, action speaks louder than feeling fear! There are always things we can do to transmute fear, but we must act on them if we are to have any sense that our practice of overcoming fear is more real than the fear we feel.
I have found that attitude is everything in overcoming fear, since that is the only thing we ultimately have control over. In my own life, from the time I was a child (and had many things to fear, both real and imaginary!) I have consistently found that COURAGE is the primary mental quality to hold on to while facing fear. Having courage makes us feel stronger and more capable of handling whatever we confront. As we face our fears, they cease to trouble us, since by seeing how they have no power over our true Self, we dispel the illusion that they are real at all.
When we confront our fear, we enter into a dark realm we've tried to avoid since infancy. Fear is one of the four primal emotions, as was made clear in How to Overcome Fear. By all means, when you're done here read the entire article, but for now, here are a few pieces about the subject:
The emotion which causes the most needless suffering is Fear. Together with Sensuousness, animal Sex Desire, and the most subtle of all, Vanity, these are the basic elements of the emotional nature. You cannot conceive of any emotion that has not its origin in one or more of these four basic ones....
Fear is the cause of most anger, most jealousy, most murder, failure, theft, doubt, discouragement, despondency - and many of the lesser inharmonious conditions. Analyze any one of these states of mind and you will find that fear is the father of it. Eliminate fear and you have destroyed the root, or basis, for many of the emotions which lead men astray. Begin your fight directly upon fear, and not the many phases of it, and a tremendous amount of force will be saved, for it must be conquered before very much will be accomplished in life. You will remember that you were told that the mind is magnetic, and draws to itself whatever it frequently thinks about. When you are constantly fearing something, you are drawing toward you the very thing you fear, and the reason that humanity has not been swept from this planet long ago is because it has shifted its fears from one object to another so often that it has never held to one thing long enough to destroy itself.
To accomplish rapidly the destruction of this great enemy, it is well to begin by controlling some of its grosser forms, such as physical cowardice. Great numbers of men and women are inwardly the most wretched cowards and yet suppress the external expression of their fears because they are ashamed of them. Here is where the fear of public opinion is greater than the fear of something else, and the emotion is not conquered, but shifted. Try to conquer your cowardice, because it is an enemy to you and will retard your development...
In facing inner qualities that undermine our self confidence, self reliance, and ability to grip life on our terms and live it to the fullest, we are required to develop a measure of self-control. This is not the same as repression, but rather knowing which part of us is actually in command of the other parts of us, and being willing to exercise our Divine Will and Intelligence to direct our lower mind and feelings into productive rather than non-productive tendencies.
Our desire mind will run us all over the map through its attachments, aversions, delusions, and tendency to fall into despondency due to its inherent nature. With awareness and knowledge, we can fairly quickly put our Higher Self in the Captain's chair, and put our lower self into its suitable position as servant to our Higher Self. We find a few hints how to do this naturally in Emotions, Self-Control, and Correcting Habits where we read:
First, you should realize that all uncontrolled emotions are the result of ignorance or undevelopment, and this knowledge will rob them of their power over you. You will know that you are at the emotional point in your evolution, which is an indication of ignorance of your own power of self-control. Then you will begin to see the need of development, and will set about correcting the fault. A child fears the dark because he does not know its nature of its cause. If he is carried into a dark room and the light is turned on, and he sees nothing there to injure him, his fear is immediately dissipated. His fear was banished when his ignorance was destroyed.
If you can show a person that there is no "bad luck" except that which he has created, and that the "evil" he fears he builds for himself, immediately you destroy the power he has given to these conceptions.... So it is by enlightenment that any or all of our emotions are controlled or eliminated from us.
The second great aid is this: if we understand what habit is, and know the law which underlies it, and if we know that much of our yielding to our lower natures and lack of self-control is a matter of habit, we shall be able to destroy habits much sooner than if we do not understand them. There are two elements which enter into the formation of a habit. The first is what might be called the law of periodicity, or periodical return, and the second is the initial impulse. The law of periodicity causes a thought or an act to be repeated within a determinate time. The intensity with which the thought was projected, or the act performed, determines the time in which the tendency to repeat itself will manifest.
Please revisit the second article in its entirety as well, since there are gems of wisdom to be practiced as we move from darkness to light, the unreal to the real, and from death to immortality. Regardless of what presents itself to your five senses and your mind, your feelings and your physical self, you are greater than that, and have the Divine Power to reorient away from fear into your ability to respond to that which promises truth, goodness and beauty.
Drop your fear. It's a useless response. Love yourself, and have the courage to express that Loving Wisdom that is yours to offer yourself and your world. You have nothing to lose but your fear.
© Copyright 2007 Robert Wilkinson
Right on! So much courage comes from truth. We are what we think. The pharmaceutical corporations are out of control selling depression and fear as though they have the only answer. Thank you Robert (again)---James Allen wrote "As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he."
Best wishes from Baja, Jan
Posted by: Jan | May 17, 2007 at 03:11 PM
When the October 17, 2005 eclipse happened, right on my 24 degree Libra sun, EXACT DEGREE, and the October 1, 2005 Mars retrograde opposing my natal Scorpio Mars, (I have a 5 planet Scorpio stellium, with Saturn in Aquarius squarring everything!) AND the Aries Nodes squarring my natal Cancer Nodes, AND Uranus square Saturn during the October 3 Eclipse, that's when I developed a fear that will NEVER go away. I was an optomist until that day. I was fearless - UNTIL I had things happen to me that were NOT of this world.... TERROR is what I felt, fear would have been a blessing!
Posted by: Lorena in Chicago | May 17, 2007 at 04:48 PM
Hi Jan - I agree with everything you said. Regarding Big Pharma, something comes to mind about "don't let the sound of your own wheels drive you crazy..." So many self-fulfilling prophesies. Someday they'll accept the mind's power to create some interesting external results, and our approach to health will change. Mind-body is the very beginning.
Hi Lorena - Sorry you had to endure terror. There are many forms, and none are easy or pleasant. Still, terror is simply fear taken to an extreme level. And though I have truly been through "the dark night of the Soul" more than once - for real! - NO FEAR is the only way to live. I pray that you find the sources of healing you need to release the holographic memories of such extreme fear. My sincere condolences that you had to endure such horrible feelings. No Soul should have to endure such things.
Posted by: Robert | May 17, 2007 at 07:52 PM
Hi Lorena and Robert, I have gone through hell too. I have been taught to repeat a mantra aloud 108 times everyday. Its called Mahamrityunjaya Mantra. It has nothing to do with religion, though it has been sourced from ancient texts in India. You can read about it here
http://www.swamij.com/mahamrityunjaya.htm
I can guarantee that after just one sitting of 108 repetitions you will feel an inner peace not experienced before. So please give it a try.
Posted by: Aditya | May 17, 2007 at 08:24 PM
Hi Aditya - As you obviously know, Mantra Yoga is one of the seven sacred pathways outlined in the Vedas, mirrored in our everyday lives. For those who wonder about such things, Mantras have to do with vibration, sound combinations from ancient Masters of Sound as the Vedas record them, and different ones help at different times for different things. I wholeheartedly agree with you, Aditya, that Mantras can be most efficacious at critical points in our evolution. Whether complex or basic, vibrational tones can give us a deep remembrance of the Source, and provide shelter from the storm.
Posted by: Robert | May 17, 2007 at 09:49 PM