by Robert Wilkinson
I know I'm posting quite a bit on this theme these days, but it seems from feedback that it's very important now to figure out just how much "control" we do or do not have in what happens to us as well as our choices how to deal with such things.
This article originally was composed to answer a comment from a reader that went "I have read that when we don't live consciously, things then 'happen' to us as fate. I have also read that the outer planets (Uranus, Pluto) bring situations into our lives that are (seemingly) out of our control. Or do we attract these situations into our lives? How much control do we really have?"
To restate my take on these things, in my experience we have total ability to control our responses when confronted with situations both within our control as well as those that are out of our control. Whether we "caused" them or not, we can be productive, constructive, or destructive. We can be resentful, grateful, or anything in between. We can be happy, sad, frustrated, or take it as a challenge to rise to an occasion.
That said, we have no control over when we will have to confront the need to respond as best we can by rising to an occasion. What happens in our lives is often the result of prior causes. When they will happen is set at birth by the timing on our birth chart.
Besides what happens to us personally, due to karmas or another's influence (which may or may not involve past karmas), we all live within the larger configurations that affect everyone. These are the storms that rain on "saints and sinners alike." Regardless of what is happening, we always can shape our responses to what happens, regardless of how long we will have to maneuver through the rapids of life.
We shape everything by what we do, feel, and think in any given moment. We can get beyond certain problems fairly quickly, but we cannot escape our need to keep learning all we can learn in order to BE our Highest Self.
I originally answered the comment with the statement "Briefly, Uranus, Neptune, and Pluto represent transpersonal pulses that affect EVERYONE. The rising or sinking tide that floats all boats, so to speak."
So from an astrological point of view, it is probably safe to say we have little to no control over how and when these operate in our lives, since they are transpersonal and therefore beyond personal issues and biases. They symbolize the broader sweeps of larger cycles, those larger life events that are "forces beyond our control," or Divine Energies that move us dramatically into new ways of doing our Being.
For example, we can choose to fear or love while we're enduring a life revolution, regardless of the "cause" of that life revolution. We can gripe or celebrate, but we can't do much about the fact that there IS a life revolution going on. We can only shape our responses to what happens, and override the lower self's tendencies to freak out while moving with the Divine flow. I continued my answer to the question:
"The Sacred Seven are the planets we learn to master, turning dysfunction into conscious utilization of each type of energy in productive ways that further the evolution of self and life. I did a post awhile ago on the dualities of the planets."
In those dualities are the secret of turning malfunctioning parts of our inner "lights" into skills and wisdom that help us get beyond being pushed and pulled by the imperfections of those planets and the inner functions they symbolize.
The Sacred Seven planets of antiquity are the 7 visible planets that are our inner "Lights." They include Moon, Sun, Mercury, Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and Saturn. These are our planetary principles. Our life challenge is to bring these parts of us out of error into an ever greater perfect functioning.
For example, Saturn's duality is Dominion/Slavery. How we deal with these shows us how effective we are in becoming conscious of our "Great Work" of the alchemists, that of becoming ever more effective in our living Self-realization. We do this by coming out of fears and control issues that keep us enslaved, also symbolized by a Saturn malfunction.
Throughout our lives, we are attracting (by our responses to life experiences) the lessons we must learn resulting from our thought-forms and desires, both conscious and unconscious. Our thought forms, desires, and actions set up our lessons where we learn love, wisdom, and intelligent action. By learning about these, and finding a healthy self-control of the lower nature, we come to BE, instinctively and consciously, our Higher Self.
As we become our Higher Self, we raise our vibration to levels where the lower nature does not attract negative experiences. That prevents many painful experiences, and facilitates many positive experiences. That's our true control over life.
While we may not be able to totally prevent difficult experiences (since that seems to be a part of life on Earth for everyone, regardless of their state of awareness) we can certainly learn how to surf the waves of disturbance as well as happiness by identifying with that which is beyond pleasure and pain, and therefore the oscillations between uncertainty and satisfaction.
While the timing on the major events of our lives is "fated," we always have the free will to respond positively or negatively, productively or destructively, ignorantly or with awareness of the higher possibilities in the moment. That's pure freedom.
© Copyright 2009 Robert Wilkinson
(This article was originally published in April 2006, and incorporates much more material to flesh out some key points addressed then.)
Thank you. This is a great post.
Posted by: Pepper | May 19, 2009 at 11:41 AM
Hi Robert, what a great article. I especially agree with the part about having the ability to control our responses. I've been working on that for a long time because I tend to worry and be a crybaby (Cancer). In recent years I've noticed that most of my problems sort of fix themselves or work out well in the end. I call these experiences testimonies of faith. (I might have seen this phrase some place but I don't remember.) It's like God saying, see, everything turned out fine and you didn't have to worry. Something would bail me out. If money was involved, I'd have what I needed. Or someone helped me. Or the thing I feared never materialized. Lately it is happening constantly and I hear that voice in my head, there you go, another testimony of faith. I still get upset about stuff, but something is working. It's hard to do sometimes but positive thinking pays off.
A very cool article, thank you!
Posted by: Valerie | May 19, 2009 at 04:27 PM
Hi Pepper - Glad you like it. I thought it good to rewrite and repost.
Hi Valerie - Yes, I am astounded by those who believe that people are not responsible for their actions. Very good insight about "testimony of faith." Most people send up prayers, and then fret until they perceive they're answered or not. Kind of wheel spinning, and implies a lack of faith in divinity answering our affirmation in the right way and time. I find that usually the worst doesn't happen, and often an unexpected good is there if we choose to see it. (It's there even when we don't!;-))
Posted by: Robert | May 24, 2009 at 10:23 AM
Yah, there's an old Chinese saying, with a fable attached I believe,
"Maybe it's bad, maybe it's good." Applies to all events in life...
So I should regard as such, the wet ceiling problem in my kitchen, LOL...
cheers, Valerie
Posted by: Valerie | May 24, 2009 at 07:28 PM
Hi Valerie - Thanks for the inspiration by reminding me of that old tale. May reprint it on this site when I find an accurate translation.
Posted by: Robert | May 26, 2009 at 04:58 PM
All that constitutes your articles is great, but sometimes one can find real gemstones! This following sentence is just what I would describe as one:
"As we become our Higher Self, we raise our vibration to levels where the lower nature does not attract negative experiences. That prevents many painful experiences, and facilitates many positive experiences. That's our true control over life."
In our study group, we often speack in these terms of what we deem to be a "spiritual Alchemy" - the transmutation of one's own energies into their best possible ways, so that in time most of one's less vital or happy energy is totally transmuted or substituted by something much more positive and bright.
Thanks for writing such helpful articles, I am sure these go much beyond what "usual" astrology sites do, into real Wisdom lessons for anyone who will take the time to read and deeply meditate.
Love,
Isabel
Posted by: Isabel | May 27, 2009 at 05:37 AM
Here is a link I found, the only one so far about the Chinese fable... the story actually goes on and on. I may have originally read it on a spiritual website that doesn't exist anymore. This is a start at least.
In any case, one never knows, do one?
http://www.naute.com/inspiration/luck.phtml
Namaste :)
Posted by: Valerie | May 28, 2009 at 04:29 PM