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Robert - this is a beautiful post. And find your thoughts coinciding with my own. My best friend and I were just talking about this last night...wondering what we'll be like when we're old, reflecting on our lives from our first meeting when we were very, very young. We laughed a bit about it, then we both sighed heavily. It WILL be wonderful.



Thank you! Your articles concerning relationship and compatibility these past days have been a joy to muse upon as I find myself these past months going deeper into what committed relationship is for myself, what I wish to receive(and not), what I am willing to give(and not) and what my duties are within said relationships. Seems Saturn approaching Libra is bringing this forth quickly.

I felt your article above demonstrated balance in relationship, in all things. I cannot say I have had balance within past relationships, nor within myself of course, yet I hope to bring forth my more balanced self into all of my relationships, of which I have very few outstanding after the transits of these past years yet look forward to now expanding my social circles in a much healthier form. :) All is well!

Bright Blessings~kachina


my relation end today with my girl :)
Life it is

now gonna read this article Dear Robert :)


thank you, robert, for that wonderful article. i check your website daily because i love following up on what you have to say, but this was even more great than usual because i am facing these very issues right now in my relationship. imagine my surprise when i find myself pondering whether my relationship has what it takes, while going to my favorite astrology website and....seeing an article in its entirety about how to know if the two of you have what it takes. i liked it so much i shared it with my friends. have a wonderful day.


A timely article Robert, especially given the universe is asking each of us to look at human existence in a different way, particularly relationships, be they personal, business, or on a national scale. Great article as usual!!!


great post Robert..
very true for now...seems to be a very intense period for introspection and Saturnian "getting real" with self about those ideals which are necessary for the individual self and prioritizing things you as an individual can compromise with others on to determine whether it's worth it to give focus and energy to if recieving/or not in return and those that are non-compromising for individuality-like personal space/freedom/respect/understanding/same morals & ethics..
-"protecting ones' boundaries"-as well as opening up to those, whom through self-analysis of ideals that you have/or had to even call "friend" to surround oneslef with the people whom you trust to get the best from and whom bring the best out in self..
-especially true if one is more creative, needs more time to self-for reflection and balance (which I'm sure you must know)..
-need to examine and notice what makes self happy V what makes others happy to both fight for God-given autonomy of self and to live with compromise in real world to find balance..
Sept. is typically a time for cleaing out the closets and getting rid of things that are no longer useful/desired by us--as life constantly is changing and evolving and forces us to do
this. We sometimes hang onto things that we want to fit us--but keep trying and trying to make it fit-only to realize some things just will no longer fit into our own lives..


I also notice in nature right now--watching all the natural world-"squirrely" behavior now in preparation of foraging for food-marking territories for that basic survival instinct in foraging in prep for winter..
Please be careful when using words like "laziness" as this is an unfair label..Thinking alone, finding balance with emotions, looking for creative insight or wisdom could be percieved by an observers, cleaing or weeding out various things/emotions/thoughts to find new ones-is something seemingly "frowned upon" by societal standards of "action" over introspection.
IMHO people don't do enough actual "thinking" which can appear to be doing nothing-and is a very underappreciated gift one needs to do for self over constant doing, thereby repeating mistakes and NOT learning and evolving the way nature does.


Hi Robert:

Thought provoking article. I've never been a jealous type but have had to deal with loads of jealous types-- not men but women, believe it or not! Some have gone after men I've been interested in... just for the heck of it, I guess, while two have deliberately attempted to stir up trouble in my biggest (and only) love relationship turned marriage.

For me, the best way to have handled this stuff was to either (A) clear these women out of my life or (B) talk about it with my partner or (c) both. I can't tell you how much it sucks to have had a fellow woman spread vicious rumors about me when they've never gotten to know me. It's not the rumors that hurt, but the tormenting act itself that does. It's vile. And I realized that I deserved better "friendships" than that.

I agree that jealousy is an ugly thing as it has such potential to destroy. I've been lucky enough to have a man in my life who hasn't allowed it to destroy us, though. And I've also been lucky enough to handle it all.

Keep up the great work, sir! Love it.


Fantastic! This article forces us to think about the equality in relationships and allows us to see from our partner's perspective too. I like your quotes on fear about anything. As days pass after the marriage, our thoughts become different and we seem to choose the thoughts that are comfortable for the situation rather than for the relationship. And, your words directs us to rethink the values again and thats great for an enduring relationship. I do rethink about my possible mistakes in viewing things or atleast analyse the possibilities, if I were wrong in my views. Thanks as always.


"In my own direct experience, though a couple can be severely tested through very difficult periods, whether in terms of outside seductions or even worse things, they can come through everything more dedicated, more in love, more absolutely clear about the love they have for each other. No external thing can introduce doubt in a relationship where both hearts are secure."

You're darn tootin' :)!


Beautiful post, Robert.


Addressing the flirtatious behaviors.... when confronting someone who is actively flirting with one's mate, husband, boyfriend, etc. does it fall under the banner of "jealousy" to react in a possessive manner, if only by instinct?


Hmmmmmm it seems so many people are wanting to sort this stuff out for real right now! I have seen glimpses of it before especially at this time of year but it really seems like it's time to either assert our course or veer off the path I right? I can see my own patterns so clearly and the delicate balancing act, speak one's mind or stay calm and quiet and let it run it's course. When to push, when not to it's so crucial now:)))
Thanks for being here now, Robert!


Also...I wonder Robert, could you talk about a marriage where it is not the first for one of the people involved and not the other!!!
I'm sure you have experience of this, on how it should be handled and though jealousy exactly would not be a factor but the conscious awareness of the differences in experience even more to think about on this subject!!

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